Two years ago today I was proposed to by Jared Lee. Right after that proposal, I was nervous as heck about planning the wedding. We gave ourselves 1 year to plan and execute it. I’m terrible at planning and Jared was too busy with his work at Grim so had to get ourselves a wedding planner. It did cost us quite a bit but it was well worth it! The moment The Wedding Project people met up with us on the first day, they already had a structure in mind on what the timeline should be like on when to get the dress, announce dates/invites to our relatives, preparing guest lists, looking for location, sourcing all the equipments, all the vendors, the lookbook/moodboard, and etc. I honestly didn’t think it was going to be that complicated I thought I only had to worry about my dress, Jared’s outfit, a dinner plan, and guest list. Despite the overwhelming amount of things that need to be sorted, somehow the planners were able to manage it in such a way that felt relaxed. Throughout the year, I barely felt any form of stress aside from just choosing my dress type, finalizing mood board and guest list. Even on our wedding day none of our family members and friend were in any way made to run around. They were already assigned with the task for the day and that was it. In fact, leading up to the wedding day, my friends and family were really worried because I had yet to ask hem for help to do anything. Both Jared and I are no sponsored by them. Just really wanted to share thought on getting a wedding planner. I’ve had tons of questions about our wedding and I honestly feel like the wedding felt great because of this crucial factor.